FAQ
Will I be speaking with you directly?
At first, no. I have an amazing assistant that handles my emails and correspondence to set things up for us. I expect you to treat her with the utmost respect as you would me. She operates under complete discretion and any information you share with her will remain strictly between us. Please be mindful my assistant is available to respond to emails between 9am-5pm daily, unless noted.
However it really is me on all of my social media, and content sites. You can see my Links! Links! Links! blog on how to talk to me directly.
Can I bring you anything for our meeting?
Yes, in fact I admire someone that wants to surprise me or add something special to our meeting! You can find a little treat to bring over on my wishlist. I would also enjoy:
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A trendy bottle of tequila to add to my collection: Anejo or Reposado
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A bottle of wine to share. I love a rich, full-bodied buttery Chardonnay, a fruit forward Pinot Noir. However, I'm always open to suggestions and trying new flavors.
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Perhaps some sativa for two
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Or a favorite melt-in-your-mouth chocolate
Do I have to screen and pay a deposit?
Yes, I do require a deposit to secure our date, this is to ensure our time together. Deposits start at $100 for hourly dates and can be received in a variety of discreet ways. If for some reason you need to cancel/reschedule our date, you'll have 60 days to do so. I'll hold your deposit and apply it to our rescheduled time.
Screening is a must to see me! I require your full name, 2 recent references (if available), personal phone number (no google voice/burner phone numbers), and linkedin or work information. I may also request to see your ID if I cannot verify you through the above information. If a non-disclosure agreement is desired, I'm happy to accommodate your need for discretion.
What happens if I need to cancel?
In the event you must cancel I ask that you notify me ASAP. Please understand I have set time aside for us and that time is precious. Any form of a cancellation will result in a percentage fee of the original date:
25% fee for cancelling up to a week before
50% fee for cancelling with 48 hours or less notice
100% fee for cancelling with 24 hours or less notice
The cancellation fee will need to be paid immediately to keep our relationship in good standing and for me to be able to hold your deposit for 60 days and apply it to our rescheduled time. The cancellation fee is separate from a deposit.
How far in advance do I need to book with you?
The more advance notice the better. Generally, I'll need a minimum of 24 hours advance notice. All session arrangements including screening and deposit must be made at least 24 hours in advance. My assistant manages my emails between 9am and 5pm, so all arrangements including deposit must be completed by 5pm if you wish to see me the following day.
Do you offer same day?
I do not meet new clients same day, ever. If by chance I have time in my day to accommodate same day it is only offered to pre-screened or returning clients with at minimum 3 hours notice.
Same Day for Existing Clients Only!
Expedited appointment fee + $400 on top of rate to clear My schedule and see you.
Do you offer outcalls?
It is my pleasure to visit your upscale home or hotel. Please note outcall rates are the same as incall rates in San Diego County.
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LA & OC: 3 hour minimum requirement with +$250 travel fee.
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Anything outside of SD and the above cities please see my wanderlust rates.
Do you tour?
At this time I do not tour. You can sign up for my monthly newsletter to be updated when I do desire to go on tour. Be sure to add your city and state to the newsletter so that I have an idea of which areas I might create a tour around.
Do you travel?
I want to explore the world with you! Passport ready and passionate about exploring new cities, I am the perfect partner for any of life’s adventures. Whether you want to bask in the island sun or explore village markets afar, take my hand and let’s expand our horizons together. Please see my wanderlust and extended travel rates.
Do you see couples?
I am the perfect gift to celebrate your anniversary or just to spice up an amazing evening! Please be aware both partners must complete my screening process. 90 minute minimum, however I do recommend 2 hours for an unrushed experience.
$500 additional to my rates.
I noticed it says you can cosplay?
Yes! I love dressing up and getting into character. Let's be adventurous and role play our most exciting fantasies together! We can live out one of your ultimate fantasies with a Cosplay? View some of the role plays I already have. I'm always open to suggestions.
Do you have any friends that can join us?
If you would like to meet with myself and another model in SD, I have a couple of amazing models who I love to duo with! Visit my duet page. You will first need to be screened to receive the password. 90 minute minimum.
What is the Extraordinary page?
Looking for something Extraordinary and Kinky? Check out if it's something I'm into as well. You will first need to be screened to receive the password. 90 minute minimum.
Do you have any reviews?
I do have recent reviews on Private Delights, and I gladly accept new reviews there from people who have seen me (though I do ask that you submit them to me first for approval). I do not maintain profiles on nor do I allow reviews on any other site, including TER. Thank you!
I'm so excited to meet you, do you have any suggestions on date ideas?
You're in luck! I have a page devoted to dream dates that are planned out yet are completely customizable to our mutual desires. For something more local you can explore my blog posts for a variety of meals that we can cook together in my kitchen!
Do you actually know how to cook?
Yes I really do! I'd love to cook us a meal, it's one of my absolute favorite date ideas. While I have many dishes in my repertoire that I know how to craft to perfection, I'd also find it very sexy to learn a thing or two from you in the kitchen if you have a new dish in mind :).
I'd like to send you a gift, what's the best way to do that?
Gifts are never expected but I'm so grateful you'd like to send me something. You may choose any of the suggestions I have on my pamper page. I'd be over the moon to receive any of these amazing gifts. Thank you for being a part of my life.
Are you also a photographer?
Indeed I am, however I'm only available to photograph fellow providers. Although... if we go on a dreamy adventure then I just might need to bring my camera along and snap some photos of the landscape. Want to see me in my natural habitat behind the lens? Let's explore a new city together!
Providers please click over to this page to see my work. Hope to see you in front of my lens soon!
Etiquette
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Advanced booking is appreciated and will be given priority scheduling. I prefer to be contacted by email. Kindly approach me with professionalism and decorum. Explicit messages will be discarded and we will no longer communicate.
My considerations for my time and my screening requirements are both non-negotiable. If you aren’t comfortable with my rates or screening methods I ask you to save both of our time and contact a different companion with whom you are more compatible.
Take the time to read each of the main pages of this site: Etiquette, Rates, Calendar and Reservation. They should answer about 99.9% of any questions you may have. Be sure to familiarize yourself with my deposit and cancellation policies, please and thank you! I don't have a page dedicated to only a gallery, enjoy finding new pictures on every page. Want exclusive content? Sign up for my OnlyFans!
What happens with us privately will remain between us and I can assure you that you will not be disappointed with our time spent together!
The donation for our arrangement should be in an envelope and left in clear view for me to see upon my arrival. It would be an uncomfortable faux pas to make me ask for it.
Upon arrival, kindly produce your ID for my inspection. This sets the tone for trust and allows me to relax with ease and enjoy our time together.
My preferred method of payment for my time is cash. However I'm able to take credit card with a 10% additional fee through one of the adult sites I'm on. Please let me know in advance if you will be using this method so I can give you the correct adjusted total payment.
There is nothing sexier than a well groomed friend. I provide a variety of hygiene products as well as a hot, luxurious shower to ensure you are ready for our meeting.
If you would like to extend our time together, please compensate accordingly. I do not enjoy having to encourage your departure.
No gratuities are ever expected, but are always appreciated! If you would like to surprise me with a gift then please feel free to ask or get inspiration from my wishlist!
Links
Where you can find me: Tryst | Eros | Private Delights | Preferred 411